reflection on ' Friends, good friends and such good friends' (REVISED FORM)

                                                           LIFE  AND FRIENDS

            

         Our life is full of friends. I think that we cannot live without them. When we are a little child , we have lots of friends. These friends are from neighborhood , kindergarten and hospital etc. Then, we are a primary school children and we have lots of friends again. We are surrounded by friends everywhere. The number of our friends increases dramatically when we are in high school. The number of our friends is at top when we are at university. In adult life, we begin to work and there are a lot of colleagues. If we get married , we will have another family and environment and this means that new friends will join in our life. This process will continue and people will join in our life constantly. We have a lot of friends , but it is controversial whether we have the same level intimacy with all these friends. I think that everybody's answer is no because this is impossible. If  we had the same level intimacy , then what would happened. Nobody can image this situation. We have some intimate friends and other friends. While we can tell some friends our secrets and feelings, we cannot tell other ordinary friends. Our intimate friends can understand what we feel and why we are sad. They can perceieve when we are happy or unhappy. They have potential to solve our problems and make us happy. I want to talk about other friends. These kind of friends are in our everyday life. These friends can be our neighbours or class mates or friends from gym or colleagues or our spouse’s friends and family members. We can increase the number of classification. These are not our intimate friends and we do not share our secrets and feelings with them. We can talk with them and spend a lot of time but there is not emotional bound between us. These friends are a small part of our life. Perhaps, we can see them more often than our intimate friends but this does not change anything. Our intimate friends are at the center of our life. I think that the writer of article made a logical classification. I agree with her that none of our friends are not equal to another. Some are indispensable ,but we can move out some others easily.